Acquisition of such powerful MENTAL power. How?

11:10p.m, 25-March 08, Kuala Lumpur.

Before diving into this YouTube video clip, there are 4 essential characters that I would like to make it clear lest confusion:

1) Zapatero, current Prime Minister of Spain (left).

2) Aznar, former Spaniard Prime Minister (not in the picture).

3) Juan Carlos, Spain's King (right- with a yellow tie).

4) Chavez, President of Venezuela (picture - down).

Synopsis - you can refer to this BBC web page to get a rough idea of the tussle between these 2 countries all about, however, this is not the essential point that I wish to deliver, only meant for your perusal if you wish to know further :).

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/7089131.stm

Video clip at YouTube:

Forget about the quarrel, ditch the nuisance of recognising who they were, delete the discomfortness of the King's rudeness against Venezuelan President, Chavez by demanding him to shut up and the bilateral history sentiments of these two countries. The only conversation that attracted me the most, were the few sentences mentioned by PM Zapatero almost at the end of this video clip. He rebuked to Chavez:

"....One can be diametrically opposed to another's ideology.........I think there is an essence and a principal in a dialogue. In order to respect and to be respected, we must avoid resorting to insult. One can radically disagree with another's idea.......one can strongly disagree with everything while respecting people at the same time. This is the ground if later one want to be respected.........now and in the future, even if, we deeply disagree about the ideas we hold."

Why am I sooooo get caught into these few sentences? Sincerely speaking, out of norm, when human disagree with others ideology, hardly, he/she will respect each other due to emotion starts to take control. Yet, this is not impossible to achieve, I have seen people doing it repeatedly, especially from a successful people.

A big argument happens in a meeting but after meeting, those involved, still solve, discuss, make jokes, have lunch together! Got it? How to acquire such a clear cut thought? You will need a strong mental power, agree? Or maybe this is just common sense as you don't need such mental power to achieve this?

*blur**blur* :p!